Miss Valentina Dellagravis · Luxury Trans Dominatrix London · Sex Witch, Mommy Domme, and High Priestess of Erotic Alchemy

Ease, attention, touch

Companionship.

A Private Kind of Companionship

I offer private companionship for women who want presence, conversation, touch, and ease.

You may be curious, cautious, experienced, or entirely new to this. You may know exactly what you want, or only that something in you wants to be met with more care. You do not need perfect language. You do not need to perform confidence. You will not be made to feel foolish.

I understand polarity, gender, power, social codes, and intimacy from lived experience — not theory.

As a trans/intersex woman, I have lived close to borders others often treat as fixed: masculine and feminine, power and softness, privacy and display. I have also lived internationally, moved through privileged and professional worlds, and reached the highest levels of career success. I am at ease in private rooms, public occasions, intelligent conversation, and delicate situations.

My work moves between companionship, kink, tantric touch, and intimate exploration. It can be warm, sensual, playful, serious, erotic, or still. What matters is trust, attention, and the quality of what is actually happening between us.

Couples are welcome where there is tenderness and curiosity. Carefully selected men may also be received when they approach with respect, emotional intelligence, and good manners.

Nothing hurried. Nothing careless.

A woman in a bathrobe adjusts the clothes of another woman who is turning away, standing by a window with natural light, surrounded by plants and a bouquet of flowers.

Companionship

Extended time, travel, shared moments, intimacy and safety.

Two people in an intimate embrace on a yellow couch, with one person blindfolded and wearing a crocheted outfit, while the other person kisses their forehead. Sunlight filters through the windows, creating a warm atmosphere.

Tantric Touch

Surrender into the joy of your own body.

A dimly lit room featuring two women; one is seated on a table while the other stands, holding her hands. The scene has candles, flowers, and decorative elements, creating an intimate atmosphere.

Kink

Explore taboo and move past shame.

What people say about me

These experiences followed a formal application process.

I always thought domination was about harsh words and humiliation. You spoke so softly and were so kind, and yet I have never been in deeper subspace in all my life.”

Submissive client

You took me to a state of existential bliss that I have only ever experienced once before in over 20 years of yoga and meditation. Your touch is incredible.”

Elysium by Bondassage® client

Bespoke companionship and unique encounters

I maintain a limited presence on third-party platforms and escort directories. All serious requests still begin on the site above.

You may come across images of me which are more BDSM oriented or show me as a switch. I work as a model. Kindly note that all encounters are bespoke.